What are your memorable moments in your family?
Family,
as what people defined it is the basic unit of the society. The most memorable,
as far as I always remember when we go to church every Sunday, early in the
morning my dad keeps waking me up exactly at 4 in the morning to get ready. The
times that we always go to mall and my dad want me to choose whatever I want
and he’s the one who will pay for it. That time’s that we keep going back to Pampanga
and Bohol in a complete family we always have a vacation every two-year. Also every
night when I’m sleeping besides them is the most treasurable experiences ever;
I don’t know what to do if they do not exist in this world. Those words that my
papa always repeating it to me “nak, dalawa lang kayo mag kapatid na buo ang
dugo dito sa mundo at iisa lamang ang ating pamilya, kaya wag nyong sayangin
ang mga oras na mag kasama kayo, At dapat hindi tayo mag away-away.” Also that
time that my dad keeps on tickling me, and I laugh as loud as I can. And every
morning he kisses me to wake me up and when we fought, it doesn’t exceed in a
day. My mama and papa’s hug and kisses, the protection the emotion and the
physical contact will always rely on us, I owe them my life and heart and I
respected them. They are the perfect role in my life my strength and
weaknesses.
What are the challenging moments in your family?
The
challenging moments that I encounter are the times when in a family or in a
relationship fighting is the one that cannot be avoided. Last time I checked that
when when my dad got back to his bisyo like drinking and smoking, especially
this two but for smoking, he’s been avoiding the smoke’s of the cigarette for
him to control himself to use one. But unfortunately he got back, and the
alcohol one day I remember he came home late then he was drunk and throwing
things all of sudden, he was kicking us and he told us hurtful words. And I
also remember that my dad’s job is not that stable it can disappear in one
click. Because his income depends only to the numbers of customers, so
sometimes we have been experiencing financial crisis and I need to sacrifice sometimes
to go to school without any allowance. And as what I observed now, were lacking
harmony to our family it’s been months since we go to church with a complete
member and that’s hurting me. And my little brother, as he growing he’s
changing his attitude and been influenced by his ugly friends. It also hurts
me, because when my brother doing these things my papa felt so depressed and
that’s also the times that he use cigarette. I don’t want to let my dad and mom
hurt by someone, because when they’re hurt, I also felt that way.
